Gratitude is the Pillow.

“Let gratitude be the pillow upon which you kneel to say your nightly prayer. And let faith be the bridge you build to overcome evil and welcome good.” - Maya Angelou

Today I am grateful for the way life is teaching me to trust, and to let go of my fears...

and good books that are a daily pep talk for me, reminding me who I am...

and incredible records that make me cry with joy,

and for friends who show up when we host an outdoor movie night ..

and for the birth of one of our best bud's first baby.

Everything is amazing.

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